View from Regatta Hotel front verandah...across Coronation Drive to Brisbane River |
Regatta Hotel |
Similar in style to the Workers' Cottage we bought and renovated...the first house we bought |
Tongue & Groove Wall |
Almost immediately upon Randall’s return to Queensland’s
fair shores he gained employment as bar manager at the Regatta Hotel, a
well-known popular watering-hole in Brisbane…in the suburb of Toowong situated
on Coronation Drive just across the road from the Brisbane River; and a short distance from where we lived in the unit block.
For a period while living in New York Randall worked within the
New Zealand Mission to the UN. He worked directly for Frank Corner who was New Zealand’s Ambassador to the United Nations, who was also the US
Ambassador. Corner, who was born in Napier,
New Zealand in
1920 (he passed away in August 2014 at the good age of 94), also served on the United
Nations Security Council at the time.
After leaving the employ of Mr. Corner and the New Zealand Mission to
the UN Randall gained employment with the British Embassy within the UN boundaries. After working for the British for a while,
Randall changed pace and scenery to become the bar manager of O’Brien’s, a bar (and diner/restaurant) on
the Upper East Side of Manhattan. O’Brien's
also had a :sister" bar out on Long Island. Both of which are long gone by now, I imagine. (It was a little before Carrie and her
friends from “Sex and the City” discovered the city).
From his time managing the bar in New York and managing the
Long Island bar on summer weekends, Randall had gained a wealth of knowledge
about the bar trade and the art of cocktail-making. He had no interest in returning to radio
work, the industry he was in before heading overseas; although he was urged to do so from a few quarters because of his magnificent, mellifluous
speaking voice. Even to this day, so many years later, he is remembered by some who were around back
during the time he was in radio…because of his deep, dulcet tones.
Randall remained at the Regatta for a few months before
leaving to take up a job waiting tables at night at Manouche Restaurant, Milton Road, which was
within easy walking distance around the corner and up the road a bit from where we lived. A while later when the owner of Manouche
opened another restaurant romantically named Scaramouche in the city Randall
commenced working there during the day doing the lunch shift as well as working
at Manouche at night.
Shortly after we married, he resigned from both to take up a
position as salesman at a Toowong Real Estate agency, Conias Apollo. Again, the agency was on Milton Road, Toowong, just around the
corner from where we lived.
I still worked during the daylight hours within the fashion
industry…in the employ of the Kolotex Group of Companies; a job I’d commenced
in 1965, a couple of months after moving to Brisbane from Gympie.
Smocka was a young cat not long past kitten stage when
Randall arrived on the scene. The more
experienced, worldly, sage Sergeant-Major Sasha was a mature seven years old.
He ruled the roost. With that being a time-consuming role, he enjoyed a good
night’s sleep. He'd been my shadow; my bodyguard for seven or so years.
Smocka’s greatest joy was to play through the night. He’d worked out an exciting circuit better than any thrilling theme park ride. Smocka’s fun-filled
route commenced down in the lounge area; it progressed running up the carpeted
stairs to the upper level culminating on our bed where he’d attack our toes before scampering up along our bodies and back down again, smiling all the way; and then
he’d take off to repeat it all over again…and again! Yippee!
It was a wonderful game. His
energy knew no bounds - but, boy...could he bound! Humans…the
greatest playmates in the world for young cats particularly at night!
When Randall was working nights only, he had his days free. Fed up with Smocka waking us through the
night, Randall devised a plan. During
the day every time he caught Smocka napping, Randall would wake him up! Every time he passed Smocka he’d give him a
nudge; a gentle shake; nattered nonsense in his ears, and kept him in lengthy conversation. The plan worked. After a while, Smocka, not getting a good
day’s sleep, slept through the nights!
Peace reigned once more!
Not long after Randall commenced working in real estate we
bought our first house. It was a little two
bedroom with front enclosed sleep-out “workers’ cottage” two doors along Cadell Street from
where we lived in the unit block. We’d
attended an auction one Saturday morning – lost out on the auction – but bought
the identical cottage next door for about a thousand dollars less! Our intention was to live in our new home and
renovate it ourselves as we went along…room by room. This was in early 1976.
The move from our unit to the cottage was easy. It was a
case of making a few trips manhandling our possessions, with the help of a
couple of mates, the few metres along the footpath to our new little abode. The
cottage in Toowong was the first house we bought. We were thrilled pink.
Sasha and Smocka came with us, of course. They settled in easily without complaint, or
so I thought. However, unnoticed by me,
Sasha had been stewing in private, trying to keep a lid on his emotions. Enough was enough…that damn straw that broke
the camel’s back was at it again.
When Smocka came into our lives, Sasha greeted him with
open, furry arms. He enjoyed having a little mate with whom he could share his
stories and wisdom. And then, Randall
appeared on the scene. Sasha’s good
manners came into play. He lodged no
complaints with me. Sasha put on a happy
face and just got on with it. I was none
the wiser of what was bubbling beneath the surface of his ginger coat. He loved me, and it was obvious right from
the start when Smocka came into our lives, Sasha had room in his heart for
Smocka, too. Whend Randall joined the throng Sasha didn’t kick up a stink. He
graciously accepted the intrusion by another human into his life; a male
intruder at that! It appeared he had enough room left in his heart for the new
member of our gang. Sasha, I was to
learn, was adept at hiding his feelings when he felt it prudent to do so. On the flip-side, he was also adept at being
imprudent about not disguising his feelings when the situation (or person) suited.
Instead of taking his adverse feelings out on the
interloper, Sasha started giving me the cold shoulder. I was going to have to
pay the penalty for bringing another male into my life. Goodness!
I already had two…Smocka and Sasha.
Why would I need another? Wasn't he enough? Weren't he and Smocka enough?
Eventually, Sasha didn’t attempt to mask his disdain. He’d gone right off me. And to rub it in even further…as if I wasn’t
feeling hurt enough as it was…he became the best of mates with Randall! If Randall had been into football, I’m sure
the two of them would’ve gone along to games together, or sat on the sofa
watching sport on television, while downing a couple of cold tinnies!
Shortly after moving into the cottage we decided it was time
to attack the renovations. Randall took
a couple of weeks off from work to enable him to have free reign without
interruption. During the day I continued on with my job
and left him to it. I’d leave around
7.15-7.30 am each morning and returned around 6 pm or thereabouts.
Every time I arrived home from work, Sasha could not be
seen. And yet, Randall told me, all
throughout the day Sasha was there at Randall’s side as he worked on the
interior of the house. It was as if
Sasha wore a wrist watch…moments before I was due to arrive home from work, he
would take off. No matter how much I coerced,
cajoled, begged, pleaded, wept, bribed, Sasha ignored my every heartfelt plea. Nothing I did would change his mind or
attitude. I always filled his food bowl
as usual...morning and night…that didn’t change. If he didn’t want me around when he ate, that was
okay with me…as long as he ate; and as long as he knew food would always be
there for him. My love was always there for him, too.
I’d see him staring at me from the yard over the
back. Sitting amongst the long grass,
thinking I didn’t know he was there, I’d burst his bubble and go up to the
fence to chat with him. He was a typical
headstrong redhead! I knew all about
redheads. My late mother, Elma who’d
passed away in 1974 had had beautiful deep auburn hair – she was a natural
redhead with a character to match. I’d
started to think perhaps Elma’s spirit had infiltrated Sasha’s! My mother had been very headstrong, and now,
Sasha was acting similarly! Every time I approached him, he’d just stare
haughtily back at me. He took up
residence in a yard over the back from our cottage, a few doors down. An elderly lady lived there. We introduced ourselves to the lady and
explained the situation. She told us
Sasha was not a nuisance to her and that he never entered her house. She had greenhouse on the back fence line
filled with potted cacti. That was his
favourite spot! There’s no accounting
for taste…but he had become a prickly character…so I guess it was in character!
Sasha still paid visits, some longer than others, but he
remained stand-offish…with me. It broke
my heart, but there was nothing I could do to change the situation; no matter
how hard I tried. He’d decided I’d
deserted him, and that was that. He'd make me pay; he’d
had enough of my wayward ways. He didn’t
blame Randall, nor did he blame Smocka.
He blamed me.
So life went on, as did our renovations every spare minute
we found. Well, maybe not “every spare
minute”, but progress was being made.. We became very proficient painters of tongue
and groove interior walls.
And then, one day we came home from our respective jobs and
Smocka was missing. He couldn’t be found
anywhere. We went up and down the
street, the back streets and the front streets; Randall by car and me by foot.
We knocked on doors. We called
his name, but to no avail. I was inconsolable. Smocka was a true house cat; he was a sook...the softest, sweetest cat with not a nasty bone in his body. He never wandered; always content to be
within his own boundaries. I couldn’t
understand what had happened. Like a
demented woman I scoured the streets, the gutters…perchance he had gone out on
the street and he’d been hit by a car. I didn’t find him.
Then a couple of days later, still not having given up the search, a neighbour, a young woman in her mid-twenties whom I knew
only by sight and a nod in greeting when our paths rarely crossed noticed I was
somewhat distraught.
In her most comforting way she said to me: “Maybe he’s been
taken by someone. I hear there are
people going around stealing cats for greyhounds!”
She was lucky she walked away alive. I just looked at her, open-mouthed. I couldn’t believe anyone could be so
thoughtless; so ignorant, but I should’ve known better…some people…too many people…do not
think before they speak.
I turned my back on her and walked away without uttering a
word.
Climbing our front stairs, Randall
could see I was very upset…and angry. I
told him what the lass had said. He was flabbergasted, too. After that incident each time I saw the young woman I
pretended I didn’t. I couldn’t bring
myself to acknowledge her…I didn’t trust myself to acknowledge her.
Smocka was gone…and I never discovered what happened to
him. I lived in the hope…in the
dream…someone had taken him thinking he was a Russian Blue…and he was living
the life of an aristocrat.
Those
thoughts still remain with me…the scenario helped me with my grief. Some may think that's silly of me...but I give no apology or excuse.
Sasha still watched on from the sidelines.
This is not the end of this story....there is more to come...the tail end of what is turning into a long tale will follow ...stick with me, please...
Some cats carry a grudge very, very well.
ReplyDeleteThe skinny one had a cat that loved him. The skinny one went overseas. Moby was inconsolable. He cried. Himself couldn't get used to the time difference and often used to ring us up around 3am, when I was (naturally) in bed. So was Moby. He heard himself's voice and went hunting for him. Hunting and crying. It broke my heart.
Himself got home. Moby met him at the door, said 'who are you?' and refused to treat him with more than common politeness. And never,ever forgave him.
My heart breaks with you for the loss of Smocka - and that inconsiderate oxygen thief. Looking forward to the next installment.
Hi EC...I love your story. Cats are incredible creatures of that there is no doubt. And so many people just don't realise how amazing they can be.
ReplyDeleteShama is here right now bossing me around. She's a little prima donna! A real little madam!
Thanks for coming by, EC. Cuddles to the Js. :)
Hi Lee ~ I renovated a workers cottage in Brisbane just like yours too. And I had a ginger male cat who sadly was victim to a tick. He was a big beautiful boy ~ and when he walked you would swear he was a big cat not a domestic cat. It was sad when we lost him.
ReplyDeleteHey there Carol...Yes, renovating was the thing to do back when we started doing it...in the mid-Seventies...a long time before all the reality TV reno shows! lol
ReplyDeleteTicks...I hate ticks. There are a lot of ticks here on the hill.
It's always so sad when we lose a pet. I know I've broken my heart over many.
Thanks for coming in...'tis always a pleasure to see you. :)
Oh My Dear! This was Heartbreaking! I choose to believe he had a long good life with a lovely family, because the alternative is too painful!!
ReplyDeleteCats....they crawl into our hearts, forever and ever!
I choose to believe the positive, too, Naomi...I had to do so...and I've tried to stick to the belief that it was so; but I still feel sadness of losing my little mate. I always will.
ReplyDeleteThanks for coming by. :)
"the tail end"? Was that deliberate wordplay Lee?
ReplyDeleteWe had a cat called Boris. He arrived as a young stray and stayed with us for ten years but then one night he disappeared and we never saw him again. I really connected with that cat - like a best friend without words. It's the not knowing that hurts the most.
Cats for greyhounds? I didn't know that cats could run that fast!
Yes, Yorky, "tail end" was deliberate.
ReplyDeleteIt was suggested many times that in some quarters cats were used as lures in the training of greyhounds...not a very nice thought...an extremely distressing one.
Thanks for dropping by. :)
We would be beyond devastated if one of our critters took off and never made it back home.
ReplyDeleteG'day Jerry...I was beyond devastated. Even to this day, all these years later, I still get upset when I think (and write) about it. Smocka was a much loved little fellow; I adored him; and that he was such a gentle soul made/makes his loss even more painful. Our pets are so very dear to us, aren't they?
ReplyDeleteThanks for coming by, Jerry. :)
Well I have allergies so I have never really had pets. This last pet Disco is a blessing from God - and if something happened to him i don't know what in the world would happen?????
ReplyDeleteG'day Sandie. All my life I've had a pet or pets. Fortunately, I've never had any allergies.
ReplyDeleteI think these days I might have become allergic to humans, though! :)
Thanks for coming by. :)
We celebrated Thanksgiving this week and it is a wonder I have any cats left. My family loves felines and enjoyed playing with David, Olive, Luke, Han, Leia and Yoda. I had to count when the company left to make sure none of my cats had been cat-napped.
ReplyDeleteSorry someone place a sad vision in front of you about your lost cat. You never know what some people will think they should share.
Lee
ReplyDeleteI totally understand about the missing kitty. When Moe left I was so miserable. Like you I looked everywhere for him and then on his own he came back to spend his remaining few months with the lady he adopted. Peace
I bet he was scooped up because he was so cue. So sorry though! That must have been so tough.
ReplyDeleteCUTE. Not cue. Grr.
ReplyDeleteHi Annie...I bet your furry rebels lapped up all the attention, too, and are now comparing notes between each other!
ReplyDeleteThanks for coming by. :)
I remember reading about Moe's disappearance, Lady Di...and I knew you were upset...and I was upset with you. I was also very happy when I learned he'd returned.
ReplyDeleteThanks for coming by. :)
Hi RK...I knew what you meant...and you were on cue, though. :)
ReplyDeleteYes...it was really tough to have lost him.
Thanks for popping in. :)
Greetings from Dubai!!I really enjoyed going through your blog. Have a great week ahead!
ReplyDeleteShantana
Thank you, Shantana. Greetings back at you from Australia! :)
ReplyDeleteFinally catching up Lee. I grew up in Taringa so not far from you and my SIL lived in a unit in Sylvan Road in 1971. She lives at Eagle Heights these days - a bit arty ( knits tea cosies and does mosaics... and makes a little money from selling them too !!). I gather you missed the damaging storm like we did. More rain this weekend though. We need it.
ReplyDeleteHi there, Helsie...yes, we did miss that terrible storm, thank goodness. I do feel for those who were affected by it, though...the poor buggers. So much damage..it's unbelievable and it happened so fast. I'm glad to hear it didn't cause any harm to you, too. I love the rain and look forward to receiving more...but the fierce storms we can do without. I'll be battening down the hatches this weekend.
ReplyDeleteI know Sylvan Road well...it was just around the corner from Cadell Street where I lived in the unit and then in the cottage...and it's where, as you know, the Regatta Hotel is on the corner of Sylvan and Coronation Drive. A great watering hole!
So your SIL would've been in the same neighbourhod as I was in those years. We probably passed each other or came across each other in Conias' mixed business shop in Milton Road...and now she is living in almost the same precinct as I am....again!! This time we probably cross paths in the aisles of IGA!
Thanks for coming in. :)
Nice post - cats really do own us!
ReplyDeleteCheers - Stewart M - Melbourne
Hi there Stewart...yes, they certainly do. The two I have now control me...and they know it!
ReplyDeleteThanks for coming by. :)
Heartbreaking. Ugh. I hope also that Smocka lived out the remaining part of his life as an aristocrat.
ReplyDeleteNot knowing though must have been sooooo bloody hard. And painful.
Another interesting installment of your life, which I enjoyed, Lee :)
G'day Wendy...I'm glad you're enjoying my rambling ruminations, Wendy. It was hard when Smocka disappeared and I still get upset when I think/write about that time.
ReplyDeleteThanks for popping in. 'Tis always nice to see someone from across the Ditch. :)
Poor Sasha, feeling left out and punishing you for it. Clearly he thought you were his alone after all those years before Randall. Sad that he didn't eventually come back to you.
ReplyDeleteYes, it was heartbreaking for me, River...because he remained in my heart...I loved Sasha.
ReplyDeleteThanks for coming by. :)
I'm amazed Randall was able to change Smocka's sleeping habits. But then again our cats sleep 22 hours a day so we've never had to try.
ReplyDeleteHey Dexter...the power of sleep deprivation works every time! If that hadn't worked the thought of giving him a nip or two of Scotch had passed our minds! ;)
ReplyDeleteThanks for dropping in. :)
My hearts breaks for you that you lost your Smocka like that. I loved the two cats I had and that was a constant worry - especially when workman were about - that they would get out and disappear.
ReplyDeleteSasha sure could hold a grudge, sounds like. He was a redhead like my cat Sophie. That photo with his back to you cracks me up and I love that he had the shape of a heart on his back.
Hi Lynn...firstly the photo of the cat with his back to the camera isn't actually Sasha...I found it on the Web; and it depicted Sasha's attitude down pat!
ReplyDeleteSasha definitely had has feelings hurt...so did I, and I was helpless in changing the situation...nothing I did worked.
Thanks for coming by. :)