Every day should be St. Valentine’s Day...or, at
least, in the general, genial sentiments of the chosen day – not the nasty attitudes
displayed on Thursday, February, 14th, 1929, which became known as
the infamous “St. Valentine’s Day Massacre.
On that particular Valentine’s Day the slaughter of
seven members of Chicago’s North Side Gang became long-lasting headlines as
they bit the bullet/s and hit the dust on a garage floor at the hands of Thompson
submachine guns brandished about by friends of the dastardly, wicked Al Capone. That’s probably not the best way to go about
spreading the love. I’m pretty sure there
are far more genteel, kind ways of enjoying Valentine’s Day.
A couple of weeks ago in the IGA car park I was
shown kindness by a total stranger who obviously has a loving heart.
Once again, I was lost in a world of my own - one
would think I’d know my way around by now – as I neared my car with a grocery-filled
trolley, out of the blue, I felt a hand gently tap my shoulder while at the
same time the following words were spoken - directed at me...
“Can I help you load your groceries into your car?”
Turning around, I found myself face to face with a
lovely young woman graced with a sunny smile as wide as the western sky. From
the goodness of her heart, a complete stranger, a smiling stranger, had made
the thoughtful offer. The friendly young woman’s consideration will
not be forgotten.
Thanking her sincerely, I declined her generosity.
Those few unexpected, genuine, kind words, combined
with her lovely smile lifted my spirits to a much higher level...out of the
dungeon of despair in which they were
wallowing.
Kindness - thoughtfulness of strangers; a bonny
smile, a friendly word, freely offered - restore one’s faith and warms one’s
heart.
Valentine’s Day, of course, is associated with
romantic love. A sentiment that is fine with me – it always has been. What can
be wrong with a celebration of love? A celebration of caring, and of kindness?
In my most humble opinion we need more such days; perhaps every day of the week, or every other day.
If you feel the whole thing is a load of foolish,
frivolous nonsense, and find Valentine’s Day annoying, you can blame the
abolishment of the pagan fertility rituals held each February on a Pope from a
long time ago, way before the Dark Ages - years before I was born even.
It was he who didn’t have a romantic bone in his
body.
Because of his harshness, a few centuries after that
particular Pope did his deed, Geoffrey Chaucer, the 14th Century
renowned poet, author - obviously an idealist dreamer - appeared on the scene to
rectify the situation.
Called “Geoff”
by his mates, Geoff was known as the ‘Father of English literature”....the
greatest poet of the Middle Ages.
I’m way past
middle age, which means, I suppose, I won’t be great at anything. That boat has sailed...left the port.
Chaucer most famously is responsible for gifting the
world with - “The Canterbury Tales”.
On a greater scale – in “Life Tales” - be kind; be
thoughtful; be empathetic; have a heart.
Since Hava Hearts were discontinued I devour
Connoisseurs.
Think of others, not only of yourself.
Spread the love around; doing so sure beats the
direct antonyms. Share the ice cream,
too!
Happy Valentine’s Day...every day of the
week...every week of every year!
Pea
Fritters with Prawns and Mint Cream: Process 1/2c thawed
peas until coarsely chopped. Add 1 egg yolk, 1tbs plain flour, 1tbs fresh breadcrumbs
(day-old bread) and 1 shallot thinly sliced; season; process until combined. Heat
1tbs olive oil in pan over med-heat. Add 6 heaped teaspoonfuls of pea mixture
to pan; flatten each slightly. Cook 1min per side or until golden and cooked
through. Transfer to plate. Top each fritter with dollop of sour cream mix, and
1cooked, peeled prawn. Serve as a starter, sprinkled with shredded mint.
Stuffed
Chicken Breasts: Preheat the oven 185 C. Cut 2 chicken
breasts almost halfway through. Chop up 55g mozzarella, 2 canned artichoke
hearts, 5 large basil leaves, 2tsp sundried tomato, and 1 garlic clove. Mix to
combine; stuff it into cut chicken breasts. Use a few toothpicks to close the
chicken around stuffing. Place chicken on baking sheet; season it with pepper,
curry powder, and paprika; bake 20-25mins or until done. Remove toothpicks before serving.
Valentine’s
Ice Cream Cupcakes: Preheat oven and prepare chocolate cake
mix as per package directions; line muffin tin with cupcake liners. Pour 1tbs
cake batter into each muffin tin; bake 12-15mins. Remove from oven: cool.
Spread mint chocolate chip ice cream on top of each cooled cupcake; place in
freezer 3-4hrs to set. Pipe whipped cream or topping on top of cupcakes;
garnish with mini-chocolate chips.
Sweetheart
Mousse: Melt 85g semi-sweet chocolate squares in double
boiler until smooth; remove from heat.
Add 1c cold whipping cream to a bowl’ whisk on high speed until it holds
stiff peaks; add 240g softened cream cheese; beat on medium until smooth.
Gradually pour in melted chocolate, then 1/2tsp vanilla; add 1c icing sugar;
mix until combined. Pipe using large tip, or pour into ramekins or small
dessert bowls. Top with raspberries/strawberries. Chill about 2 hrs.
Having a heart every day is certainly recommended, as is your mousse, i am sure!
ReplyDeleteG'day, messymimi....it most certainly is...and so easily we tend to forget.
DeleteA nudge every now and then in the right direction doesn't do us any harm. In fact, it does us good...nudging us to do good. :)
Thanks for coming by. :)
Valentine's Day doesn't mean anything to me these days, I'll leave all that lovey-dovey stuff to the younger set and any older ones who still have loving partners. I tend to spoil myself with chocolate all year round anyway (*~*)
ReplyDeleteHi River...any excuse for a chance at happiness, smiles and kindness to others is a good excuse in my book.
DeleteSeason 6 of "The Blacklist" isn't far away!
Thanks for coming by. :)
Happy Valentine's Day to you - we don't do anything special here, it's just another day. Didn't know about Valentine's Day when we were younger..
ReplyDeleteAlways so nice if someone offers to help with a smiling face - I would be wondering why she offered, but that's me.
Hey Margaret...my two furry roomies know it is a day for caring for others...they've been demanding my attention more than usual...and that sure is saying something! :)
DeleteWe knew about Valentine's Day when I was younger...and I was fortunate to be the recipient of flowers at different times.
I didn't wonder why the woman offered...she would've been in her early 40s-late 30s...thereabouts. She offered out of the goodness of her heart.
Thanks for coming by. :)
Some friends and I were talking about this over coffee yesterday morning after our respective walks (without a dog in my case). People are almost becoming afraid to be nice to people in case their niceness is misunderstood.
ReplyDeleteThat is such a shame, Graham. Fortunately...so far, here where I live that has not yet become the case. This is a small area here...still with a village-like atmosphere, with people who generally, on the whole - in the majority -willingly share their smiles and "Hellos", and offers of help.
DeleteI hope the status quo remains...it is one of the reasons I like living here on Tamborine Mountain. These kinds of surrounds and attitudes suit me just fine. I'm a "small town gal" at heart, I guess! :)
Thanks for coming by. :)
Not a bad idea Lee the way the world is these days.
ReplyDeleteScrolling down quickly today, I’m on a diet !
I reckon it is, Helsie. I seem to be surrounded by heartless folk at present, and I want to shake them back into some decent kind of reality...of feeling for others.
DeleteThanks for coming by...I'm glad to see you've bypassed temptation! :)
those ice cream bars were calling to me; been years since I had one; happy valentines day
ReplyDeleteHey there, Linda....I love the Connoisseur ice creams...and am guilty of indulging often...but I feel no guilt! :)
DeleteHappy Valentine's Day to you, too...no more slipping over now!!
Thanks for coming by. :)
Happy Valentine’s Day to you, Lee. A simple word, a small kindness can mean more to another person than the giver imagined. This is a great message that you are giving out in your post today. I hope you have some nice chocolate to treat yourself. Above all, we need to be kind to ourselves also.
ReplyDeleteG'day, Arleen...how well you have said it. You've warmed my heart...thank you.
DeleteAnd thanks for coming by. :)
It doesn't take much to really make someone's day. We should all try to do it more often. The mousse recipe sounds perfect. Rich and smooth.
ReplyDeleteOh! Boy! Andrew...I certainly need some of it today....I've had a shit of a morning! I shan't go into details.
DeleteThanks for coming by...you'd better make some of that mousse for you and R! :)
It's good to spread some love around - not in the manner of Casanova or Warren Beatty - but simply in acts of human kindness - with no expectation of profit or return - just to show solidarity with our fellow human beings - rather like that nice woman in the car park. Your landlord probably needs to learn about such behaviour.
ReplyDeleteYes, I agree, Yorkie...and that was the main theme of my post.
DeleteAs for my landlord...there is no getting through to him....he only hears his own voice; he talks over you, not letting you get one single word in...he only thinks of himself. He "knows" everything, not knowing he doesn't He is ignorant and rude. He is a total clown...and I'm not the only person who thinks so.
When I have all my "ducks in a row"....I am out of this dump, without a backward glance.
Thanks for coming by. :)
Can't you appeal to the landlord's wife? I guess that she has had to tolerate his tactics over many years.
DeleteI'm between a rock and a hard place, Yorkie. I don't want to get into a war of words with him. I dodge him as much as I possibly can and try to only have to see him face to face once a month when I pay the rent...which I always pay about 10 days...always over a week in advance.
DeleteI'm living in a permanent state of high anxiety at present...and being in this state is not a good state to be in...and no one has the right to make me feel this way. The sooner I find somewhere else to live...after being here in this converted shed for the past 17 years, the better my life, and health will be. I can't keep living in this completely frazzled manner.
I don't know how his wife puts up with him...but then she is out almost every day and goes away often on trips....she has just come back from almost a month cruising from the tip of South America up along the eastern coast - by ship - on some cruise the bridge clubs organised. One doesn't have to wonder why she is always away somewhere or other. He is too dumb to work it out! :)
I'll catch up with her somehow over the next couple of days...without him present...and explain a couple of things. From now on, though, when in his presence, I do want a third party present...because he lies...he fabricates things.
Thanks, Neil.
Seventeen years is a long time. You are a great tenant. You live peacefully and you pay your rent on time. The guy should be thanking his lucky stars. But maybe when all is said and done, if nothing changes, it's soon going to be time to move on. I know you love Tamborine Mountain so I am guessing that you will want to stay there...or going back to Gympie?
DeleteI'm putting plans into place, Yorkie....I can't take his treatment, his attitude towards me for much longer. It's not right...it's not good for my mental, and physical health. I am now, currently, actively seeking alternate accommodation...here or back in Gympie and surrounding areas.
DeleteI'm getting my "ducks in a row"...I will go at my own pace' not his. I want out...he wants me out, obviously, but it will be on my terms, not his! It will take me a few weeks to get things into order...he is not going to push me out...but every day I'm putting more pieces into the big jigsaw puzzle in front of me. Piece by piece I will get there.
The local Op Shops are doing well out of me...as I am off-loading a lot of stuff to them....things that have been very dear to me...and that is difficult, too. But one has to put aside sentimentality at times...to save one's sanity. And on it goes....
What is hurting, is I'm getting rid of books...books I've had for years...books I love.
I applaud your approach and I am sure that you will hang on to the most meaningful books of all.
DeleteWe don’t really do anything here either...Larry made me onion soup and I made him Carrot Cake Cookies.
ReplyDeleteEverything sounds delicious!!
Hughugs
Sounds goo, Donna. Thanks for coming by. :)
Delete"good" is what I meant to type...sorry. :)
DeleteGoodness Valentines Day came and went … and now here in the UK we are looking forward to Mother's Day and then Easter...
ReplyDeleteThe days, weeks and months go by so quickly.
Love your recipes here.
Hope you are keeping well.
All the best Jan