Committed to Non-Commitment
John Gray got it wrong in his "Men Are From Mars: Women Are From Venus"...I think men are from a planet far, far away...much further away than Mars...a planet yet to be discovered!
The differences between men and women are vast. Firstly, women think with their brains and feel with their hearts. Men don't think with their brains...we all know that. As for feelings and hearts...well, this one's a bit of a dilemma. I sometimes think men don't have feelings....or hearts, for that matter!
A friend of mine has been seeing her fellow for about nine years. He only visits on the weekends, rarely takes her out these days, preferring to spend the couple of nights they spend together watching videos. He goes to his parents for dinner on Saturday nights before turning up at my friend's home. I think he's treating their relationship like a comfortable pair of old shoes...if I were her I would use those shoes to give him a good boot up the butt!
I've not yet met a man who doesn't think with his penis...and I've known many men through my years, including in the biblical sense!
I wonder what it is men want or expect from a relationship...do they look for more than just fulfilling their carnal desires? Are they just looking for someone to prepare their food, to also take care of that section of their appetites?
What is it that men want? Why are some so careless with the heart of another? Is it because they just don't think? Or is it because they just don't care about anyone else but themselves? Is it that they only care about satisfying their own needs and desires?
Is romance still alive? Or is it only alive in the minds of women?