Old Val will be paying a visit again on 14th February. St. Valentine’s Day is this coming Sunday for the unaware; uninitiated. Don’t duck for cover. Don’t draw the curtains. Open your doors and hearts to what he represents. His intentions and actions are heartfelt.
Val will climb aboard his white steed, shining armour in tact. The rust will have been scraped and polished off, never to be seen by the naked eye; or even clad eyes for that matter. Val doesn’t like making a spectacle of himself.
With Cupid’s arrow in his scabbard and Cupid’s bow over his shoulder he’ll be ready to take aim in less than a moment’s notice. Be sure to have your door, mind and heart open to him. He’s a good old bloke who never means anyone harm. His aim is direct, but his arrows are as soft as his heart.
St. Val is a kindly fellow who indiscriminately spreads love and happiness wherever he roams.
In truth, he hangs about throughout the rest of the year, every year, not just on the day set aside in his honour, St. Valentine’s Day.
A special day had to be set aside because many among us have short memories. We forget all too soon.
St. Valentine’s Day is Val’s unique way of jolting us into realising love is in the air, as John Paul Young has been telling us in song for years.
St. Valentine pops up on the 14th February every year to remind us that love is all around, all the time. Wet Wet Wet repeatedly inform us of this fact. Do we take heed?
Bill Nighy tells us over and over again in “Love Actually”. How many times have we watched that movie? But, shortly after the last scene; too soon after “The End” appears on the screen, once again we’re forget that love is all around. There’s a simple remedy...all we have to do is open our eyes and our hearts. It’s pretty easy, really.
St. Valentine’s Day is needed because we fail to remember the importance of love. We humans are at fault, not St. Valentine; and yet, poor old Val who only has love in his heart cops a lot of flak – unwarranted flak!
Businesses cop a lot of unnecessary flak around Valentine’s Day, too.
I wish the grouches who complain about Valentine’s Day being a commercialised beat-up would stop whingeing. I can never understand why some complain when businesses make money. I’ve always lived with the belief that was the reason for being in business...to make money; to make a profit! Without business running profitably what a bloody mess we would all be in.
Money doesn’t grow on trees, unfortunately. If it did, I’d be over at the tree-filled, uninhabited acreage across the way from my cabin, daily!
I often wonder where those who line up at Centrelink with their hands out think the money comes from – a magical, endless hole in the wall or pit in the ground! So many of them think it’s their due; their right; and too many have never lifted a finger doing a honest day’s work in their lives! And yet they expect their fortnightly payments from the taxpayers; and they are the first ones to complain about businesses make profits! They are the ones who whinge about capitalism!
I’m on the Aged Pension. I wish I wasn’t solely dependent up the pension; I wish I wasn’t dependent upon it in any way whatsoever. I wish I was a self-funded retiree, solely dependent upon me, and I alone...but I’m not. I don’t feel proud of the fact that I’m on a pension; and I don’t abuse the system. I hate being dependent upon anyone or anything; but, unfortunately, that is how the cookie crumbled for me. That’s the way it is; that’s life...that’s my life.
Open your hearts! Raid your money boxes! Buy your lady (if you have one) a bunch of red roses; or be imaginative - buy a bunch of specially-created multi-coloured rainbow roses - or have a peer over the fence into your neighbour’s garden when he’s not looking! You never know what you might find growing there!
Better still...walk along his garden path, knock on his front door and ask politely if you could, perhaps, have a small bunch of flowers for your loved one.
Chocolates won’t go amiss for your miss, either; or perhaps just a kiss.
Don’t worry! You fellows aren’t forgotten. You’re not left out on the limb; alone like a shag on a rock.
Men might not appreciate roses, but there are bunches of edible blooms available, even gluten-free ones to accommodate all desires.
A fancy frame around a photo of his dog could do the trick; or maybe a bottle of Cognac with his own snifter (brandy balloon; you know the ones with a wide, bulbous bottom. I don’t mean a Kardashian)! And, by “snifter”, I don’t mean you should buy him a new nose!
Maybe give him something in leather. Not you, silly! Okay! Okay! Whatever floats your boat!
Take him out to dine; you pick up the tab; or prepare a romantic dinner for two at home. The menu doesn’t have to be outlandishly elaborate. Load your stereo or whatever music-playing equipment you have with tunes to your liking and his to set the scene and mood.
Dine by candle light, then he won’t notice if you’ve made a blunder or two; just scrape off the burnt bits.
A gift doesn’t have to cost an arm and a leg; but if you’re fortunate enough to have a couple to spare, it’s no one else’s beeswax how much you choose to spend on your loved one. That, in my opinion, is a private matter between you and her/you and him.
It’s not about how much money is spent. None needs to be spent at all; a loving, caring gesture is free. The thought and the love are what matter most of all.
As I inferred previously, I don’t believe Valentine’s Day is over commercialised. I hope businesses do well out of the day. Everyone benefits if businesses boom. I say “Good on them!” if their tills fill and refill.
I hope Valentine’s is a fruitful time for all operators in the business of catering to the romantic whims of the public, in whatever which way.
Money makes the world go ‘round...so does love. Let us not forget it.
Share a smile -even if you make just one person’s day worthwhile, it is worthwhile. (Remember to put your teeth in first)!
Happy St. Valentine’s Day!
Prawns-Scallops in Ginger Butter: Bring 80ml dry white wine, 175ml veg stock, 1tsp freshly grated ginger and 1 minced garlic clove to a gentle boil in pan; add 1 small carrot and ½ leek, thinly sliced. Simmer 5mins on low heat. Add 10 scallops and 150g, peeled, deveined king prawns; add 110g butter, cubed. Cook until butter melts and seafood cooked; season; sprinkle with chopped chives.
Chicken Valentine: Preheat oven 175C. Flatten 2 boned chicken breast halves until about ¼ to ½ inch thick. Combine 1/4c cream cheese with minced garlic and herbs. Spread half on each chicken breast; top each with basil leaves; then top with 2 slices prosciutto on each and 1tbs chopped oil-packed sundried tomatoes on each. Roll up; secure with toothpicks; season. Heat oil in ovenproof skillet; brown chicken, seam side down first, until slightly golden; place in oven; bake 40-45mins, until cooked; remove to cutting board; discard toothpicks; let sit 15mins before slicing the chicken.
Red Velvet Valentine Brownies: Heat oven 180C; line square tin with paper. Chop 200g dark chocolate and 135g milk chocolate. Set aside 150g for topping. Put the rest in pan with 185g diced butter and 275g brown sugar; heat until melted; stir occasionally. When melted put into bowl; cool slightly. Clean pan; melt rest of chocolate; set aside. Stir 3 eggs, one by one into melted chocolate; add 2tsp or so red food colouring until mixture is deep red colour. Sieve over 85g plain flour and 40g cocoa powder; fold to combine; pour into prepared tin. Pour the melted chocolate onto brownie in 4 evenly spaced lines; create a ripple effect. Bake 25min; cool in tin 10mins. Beat 150g cream cheese, 1tsp vanilla paste, 50g icing sugar and 50g softened butter. Cut brownies into squares or heart-shapes; spread with frosting; chill; pop a cherry or strawberry on top.
Valentine’s Vegan Panna Cotta: In medium pan, heat 1-3/4c full-fat coconut milk until very hot; add zest of two blood oranges; let steep 30mins. Then add 4tbs evaporated cane juice (or granulated sugar) and 1/2c blood orange juice; bring to a simmer; remove freom heat; whisk in 3/4tspn agar agar powder. Place back on heat; cook over low heat, stirring frequently, 5-10mins, or until agar agar is totally dissolved. Let cook for a few minutes; pour into 4x177ml (3/4 cup) ramekins. Cover; chill until set. For sauce: Using 2c fresh or frozen raspberries, sprinkle berries with 2tbs sugar or evaporated cane juice and 1tbs blood orange juice; let stand 5-10mins. To serve; spoon the raspberries and juices over the top of the panna cottas. Alternatively, you can unmould the panna cottas onto plates and top with the sauce; serve immediately.
Valentine’s Delight: Fill cocktail shaker with ice; add 3tbs bourbon, 2tbs of a sweet ruby port, 2tbs Kahlua and 3tbs thick cream; shake vigorously for 10secs; strain into large chilled martini glass; gently sprinkle ground nutmeg on top.
More Amore: Divide evenly between two glasses – 30ml strawberry liqueur, 2 large strawberries, washed, hulled and sliced. Top each glass with chilled dry sparkling white wine or champagne. Garnish with fresh strawberries.
A lover’s caress in a moment of despair
A friendly smile when none seem to care
Simple understanding to listen to share
Affectionate devotion a feeling so pure
A melodic inspiration forever to endure
A mother’s enchantment at baby’s first cry
Contentment profound as it suckles her breast
Its grasp of her hand as she lays it to rest
To witness a smile a trembling first step
First words to be spoken tears that are shed
Eagerness and anticipation of what lies ahead
Is a love so complete it can never be compared
The balmy showers of spring
Laying brown dust as they pass
The scent of freshly cut grass
On a crisp clear summer’s morn
Tender green leaves eagerly adorn
Tall trees patiently awaiting
Their debut at summer’s dawning
Gossamer clouds in skies of blue
Sparkling white sands are only a few
Of the loves of life that I pursuePoems by Lee
I am in favour of businesses making profits. I am NOT in favour of them profiteering. The price of roses more than triples.ReplyDelete
And yes, love is a wonderful thing. As is chocolate.
Hi EC...I'm not in favour of profiteering, either...at any time, for any reason.ReplyDelete
I always keep blocks of dark chocolate in my fridge...I don't eat it all the time...but it's always there, close at hand when the mood strikes!! Thanks for coming by. :)
Have you personally made and eaten the above recipes? can you tell me if they are as yummy as they sound? I'm thinking of trying the prawn/scallops in ginger butter; it has everything I like in it.ReplyDelete
I'm not happy depending on Centrelink either, but at least I only claim a part pension (being under 65) and top it off with a miniscule payment from my miniscule super account. So I'm funding myself at least a little bit.
Hi River, I've made red velvet cake quite a few times (and love it; I've not made one in about 5 years, though), but not the red velvet brownie recipe shown above. I'm sure it is delicious, though.Delete
I've made similar to the prawns/scallops and the chicken. These days I mostly eat very simply. Nothing fancy. Just salads or salads with grilled salmon fillets or a grilled steak or lamb chops are my main fare. I don't eat meat every day; sometimes not every week, but I've not given it up entirely. I eat a lot of fruit, yoghurt; and I mean a lot of fruit; and raw nuts. During summer I cook as little as possible. Quite often a sandwich of some description will do me just fine. My main meal is lunch...whatever it may or may not be.
I'm a few years older than you, River - I turned 71 in November just passed, and am fully dependent on the pension, as I mentioned...it is what it is. Sometimes one's life doesn't work out the way of one's dreams when younger. The only way my financial situation will alter is if I win a worthwhile amount in the Lotto...but I'm not holding my breath! However, I have a roof over my head; four walls to surround me; my two furry mates; 10 million books, CDs, DVDs and other cherished personal possessions and my health (touch wood); and I have my privacy and space around me and I within a very nice semi-rural area...so all is not bad. There are many, many people much worse off than I am.
Thanks for coming by. :)
I'm not with you on the Valentines day thing - and thankfully neither is my wife! But that's probably our misfortune!ReplyDelete
Curlews (different species) were the sound of upland moors in summer when I was kid.
Cheers - Stewart M - Melbourne
Hiya Stewart...Each to their own re Valentine's Day...but I think my words were more directed to sharing the love...at all times; and I can see no harm in a bit of fun...and that is what Valentine's Day is, to my mind, anyway.Delete
When I was married I always prepared a special dinner for Randall and me...again...all just a bit of fun. There's seems there's not enough fun around these days, I think...and there should be more love scattered about! :)
Curlews certainly do bring old memories to light, don't they? Thanks for coming by. :)
That chocolate drink thingy looks Delicious to me! Actually it all does. HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY TO YOU!ReplyDelete
Hey there Sandie. The chocolate drink thingy does look delicious! I'll make a couple and share a toast with you!Delete
Thanks for coming by! I hope love surrounds you at all times. :)
I love your short poems, Lee. And your prose, especially "In truth, he hangs about throughout the rest of the year, every year, not just on the day set aside in his honour, St. Valentine’s Day."ReplyDelete
May one of his arrows fly through your open door and heart on Sunday....even if it is only laden with memories.
Hi there Ms Thyme! May many of those soft arrows full of love and goodwill land through your door, too.Delete
Thanks for coming by and for your comment. :)
What a lovely post, Lee. It takes the jadedness out of Valentines and makes it fresh. And your poems are wondrous.ReplyDelete
You covered all the bases.
Thanks, Sandra...I'm glad you understood the point I was endeavouring to make. And thanks for coming by. :)Delete
Happy Valentine's Day to you.ReplyDelete
The Shadow was an old radio show and the picture made me think of that.
Hi Gail...yes...I remember that radio show. Radio played a huge role in my life when I was growing up.Delete
Thanks for coming by. :)
You never have to apologize for not visiting. I am honored that you did catch up even though I've had little to say. I like your humor.Delete
Hope you have a very blessed week.
Helping "Fair Dinkum Aussies Looking for Love", see:-ReplyDelete
Your zest for life shines through most of your posts Lee and it's present in this one too. Furthermore I applaud your thoughtful, self-crafted love poem. Pleasing to the mind.
Fair dinkum, Yorkie, I'll have to dust off my Akubra and polish my riding boots before I join that site! What a sight I'll be! True blue!Delete
It's all just a bit of fun...and I'm glad you enjoyed my poem.
Thanks for coming by. :)
Happy Valentine's Day to you, hope you have a lovely one and weekend.ReplyDelete
We don't do Valentine's Day, never did and never will.
Hey Margaret....I'll celebrate Val's Day with my two furry best mates, Remy and Shama. The three of us will spread the love. I'll trim their meat into heart-shape pieces tomorrow! :)Delete
Thanks for coming by. :)
Grubby commercial rip off to make men fell guilty.ReplyDelete
Clearly begun by an American women!
Not that it bothers me, I canny afford to buy for all my women anyway.
Ummmm.....women give their men gifts, too, Mr. Ad-Man!! You're going to have to inform your many ladies of the fact so next year you don't miss out. Either do that, or get yourself a new harem filled with generous ladies!! Tsk! Tsk!Delete
I hope you bought yourself a special treat for St. Valentine's Day, Mr. Ad-Man; and shared a smile or two to brighten up someone's day, as well as your own. :)
I hate to burst your balloon on St. Valentine's Day...but...to put it in a nutshell or a box of chocolate...a bit of information for you to digest on St. Valentine's Day night! :)
Many of the current legends that characterize Saint Valentine were invented in the fourteenth century in England, notably by Geoffrey Chaucer and his circle, when the feast day of February 14 first became associated with romantic love.
"Oruch charges that the traditions associated with "Valentine's Day", documented in Geoffrey Chaucer's Parliament of Foules and set in the fictional context of an old tradition, did not exist before Chaucer. He argues that the speculative explanation of sentimental customs, posing as historical fact, had their origins among 18th-century antiquaries, notably Alban Butler, the author of Butler's Lives of Saints, and have been perpetuated even by respectable modern scholars. In the French 14th-century manuscript illumination from a Vies des Saints, Saint Valentine, bishop of Terni, oversees the construction of his basilica at Terni; there is no suggestion here that the bishop was a patron of lovers.
Saint Valentine remains in the Roman Catholic Church's official list of saints (the Roman Martyrology), but, in view of the scarcity of information about him, his commemoration was removed from the General Roman Calendar, when this was revised in 1969. It is included in local calendars of places such as Balzan in Malta. Some Traditionalist Catholics observe earlier calendars of the Roman Rite, in which Saint Valentine was celebrated as a Simple Feast until 1955, when Pope Pius XII reduced the mention of him to a commemoration in the Mass of the day, a position it kept in the General Roman Calendar of 1960 incorporated in the 1962 edition of the Roman Missal, use of which, as an extraordinary form of the Roman Rite, is still authorized in accordance with Pope Benedict XVI's 2007 motu proprio Summorum Pontificum.
February 14 is also celebrated as St. Valentine's Day in other Christian Churches; in the Church of England, for example, it was included in Calendars before the Reformation, and S.Valentine, Bishop and Martyr, was restored to the Church's Calendar in the 1661/1662 Book of Common Prayer. He remains in the Calendars of the Church of England and in those of most other parts of the Anglican Communion.
During the Middle Ages, it was believed that birds paired in mid-February. This was then associated with the romance of Valentine. Although all these legends may differ in ways, Valentine’s day is widely recognized as a day for romance and devotion."
Happy Valentine's Day to you and thank you for this lovely post including your own poetry.ReplyDelete
You're welcome, Annie....just spreading a bit love and good cheer around...all in the name of fun and goodwill. :)Delete
Thanks for coming by. :)
We didn't really celebrate Valentine's Day this year because of my husband's health issues. We did, though, send each other a funny card, and a good laugh together is a very good thing.ReplyDelete
And that's all one needs to do, Arleen...as I've said before...it's all a bit of fun...and you don't have to go overboard. A card and a laugh...I think that's a very good thing, too. :)Delete
Thanks for coming by. Take care. :)
Of all your lovely pictures my favorites are Lady and The Tramp and the multi-colored roses.ReplyDelete
Hope your Sunday was wondrous.
Hi Sandra...I love the Lady and the Tramp one, too and every time I look at it, it makes me smile...I just had to post it. :)Delete
I had a very leisurely day with two loves of my life...my two furry rascals, Remy and Shama. I hope you enjoyed the day, your way, too.
Thanks for coming by. :)
I hope you had a nice Valentine's Day, Lee! I got some chocolates and cards for two nice ladies at my church, who aren't paid much, but put a lot of heart into their jobs. I thought they deserved a fun red and pink package.ReplyDelete
G'day Lynn...I think one gains more joy from giving than receiving...I do...and by the sounds of it, so do you. I'm sure those two ladies loved their chocolates and cards. That was a very thoughtful gesture by you. :)Delete
Thanks for coming by. :)
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