Friday, April 28, 2023

AS TIME GOES BY….

 

                                                        As Time Goes By...Frank Sinatra....

 

ANZAC Day Dawn Service 25th April, Elephant Rock, Currumbin










Time certainly is flying by at a rapid rate of knots.  At the pace it’s going, if it doesn’t watch out, it’ll be booked for speeding. Perhaps that would be a good thing, making time slow down a bit. Don’t look now but, very soon we’ll be half way through 2023!  Someone removed the sand from the hourglass and replaced it with quicksilver aka mercury when we weren’t looking, or when we were sleeping.

On Tuesday, just passed by, 25th April, once again, ANZAC Day fell…a special day here in Australia when we honour our men and women of the Australian Defence Force, and those of our best mates from across “The Ditch” (New Zealand)…who fought, and fight. alongside us…past and present.

From the Elephant Rock Dawn Service held at the Gold Coast’s Currumbin Beach, through to the afternoon (AET) in witness to the Villers-Bretonneux Dawn Service in Northern France, tears filled my eyes constantly…tears that overflowed frequently.  As time goes by the depth of my emotions felt never lessen.  As time goes by, we must never forget the valiant deeds of our men and women of the Forces. They deserve, and are worthy of our gratitude and our respect.

It’s very disturbing humans still haven’t learnt, nor heeded, lessons from past horrors. Are we slow learners, or just plain ignorant?

Old-fashioned, I am…and old, am I.  Both are impossible to disguise. So be it.  

In years of yore, back in the 1700s to be exact, (I wasn’t around then, if that’s what you’re thinking) author, Jonathan Swift, in a moment of great wisdom said, “Everything old is new again…”  Further along the track, Aussie entertainer, the late Peter Allen, played and sang the similarly named song, while also kicking up his heels, and all that jazz.  As time went by, I forwent kicking up my heels.

Once upon a time, Friday night dances were held in local halls.  On Friday nights, Gympie’s (the town in which I spent my childhood and teenage years) RSL Hall was a hive of energy.  The young, old and “in-betweeners” clad in their Friday night finest crowded the floor while performing the Fox-Trot, Quickstep, Waltz, the fun Progressive Barn Dance etc., etc, et al.  Over in a far corner those feeling hip dodged the Quickstep, and chose to jive away to a rocking beat. Each Saturday night country dances in the outer realms were well attended, too. The dances were not to be missed. And, then, to add to the fun, record hops became hip. No wonder we were trim, taut, and terrific back in the day. As time has flown by, the trim, taut, and terrific part has passed by. I’m referring to me, of course. I’m no longer a spring chicken…these days I’m an old winter hen!

Much time has gone by since hula hoops became the craze of the day. Every kid in town, including me, had a hoop. Yo-yos made their resurgence around the mid-50s.  Between hoops and yo-yos, we kids of the era enjoyed loads of fun times   Spinning, twirling, and defying gravity simultaneously became challenges worth attempting. We didn’t care if we tripped up. As time went by, with practice, every now and then, we mastered the feat, with both feet still on the ground, and our pride intact.

Upon a shelf here my high school Oxford Dictionary sits gathering dust, as does my Pitman’s Shorthand.  Both, like me, are ancient.  As time’s gone by, I guess, shorthand is old hat, too.

Returning to ANZAC Day…I was a “goner” from the commencement of the Elephant Rock Dawn Service.  It was a bleak, cool, damp early morn. Amongst the crowd a father and his young daughter sat. The child looked like she was around the age of seven years, give or take.  The little girl, curled up on her father’s lap, snuggled up closely, hugging him and nestling her head under her father’s chin.  Holding her close, the love shared between the father and his little daughter was palpable.  The scene tore at my heartstrings. My unexpected, uncontrollable tears flowed freely.  Suddenly, like a giant boulder, the reason for my feelings of deep sorrow hit me. Not once in my life have I ever experienced the loving arms, the tender embrace of my father’s arms around me.  He never played a role in my life, other than the obvious one of how I was created.  My late brother and I never knew our father…and, likewise, he never knew us.  Our parents separated when my mother was pregnant with me.  That sight of the little girl and her father really struck me.  Sad, though, it was (for me)…it was a beautiful moment….one, I know, I will vividly remember….

As time goes by…the memories, and the thoughts, the wondering do not diminish, nor do they go away…..

 

Quick Chick: Preheat oven 220C. In bowl, combine 1tsp salt, 1tsp paprika, 1/2tsp garlic powder, 1/2tsp thyme, oregano, parsley, or other herbs of choice, and 1/4tsp ground black pepper. Coat 4 boneless, skinless chicken breasts in 1tbs olive oil; generously rub spice mix over chicken; place chicken in baking dish; cook 20-25mins, until cooked through.  Rest a few mins, then serve.

Fasta Pasta Spring Chicken: In saucepan bring 2c salted water to boil; add 1-1/2c pasta of choice. Cover; cook 10mins.  Cut 2 chicken breasts into strips; chop ½ medium onion and ½ red capsicum.  Heat 1tbs olive oil in pan.  Add onion and capsicum; sauté 1-mins; add 3 minced garlic cloves; sauté 30secs, until lightly golden. Add chicken, 1/2tsp each salt, pepper and garlic powder; sauté until chicken is browned, and almost cooked through. Add 1c marinara sauce; simmer 5mins, covered.  Drain pasta; add pasta to chick mix; add 1/2c shredded mozzarella; turn off heat; top with grated Parmesan; serve.  

Chicken Stroganoff: In pan heat 1tbs olive oil; add 600g diced chicken breast or thigh; cook on high heat, 5mins, stirring, to brown all over. Tip chick and juice onto plate. Lower heat; add small knob of butter to pan; melt; add 1 diced onion and 100g sliced mushroom; cook 3mins, until lightly browned. Add 2 crushed garlic cloves, 3tsp smoked paprika, salt and pepper, to taste, plus chicken and juices; cook over low heat, 3mins, or so. Add 150ml sour cream; heat gently; don’t boil. Turn off heat; add 2tbs chopped parsley. Serve with cooked rice, pasta, mashed spuds or crusty bread, and green vegetables.     

31 comments:

  1. I have never attended a dawn service although hubby often went, being a soldier it was expected of him, and he also marched in the parades for many years but I don't think he does that anymore.
    I like the look of Elephant Rock and I might just try that spice rubbed chicken one day this winter.

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    1. Hey there, River. Up until about four or so years ago, every ANZAC Day morning I used to attend the Dawn Services here where I live, but I don't any longer. However, I do make sure I wake early e,g around 4 am, and then with a mug of hot coffee made on milk, or Milo, I watch the Dawn Service, and continue through the day, as mentioned above...watching the marches etc. I never miss them...it's not in my heart to do so.

      The service held at Elephant Rock, down on the coast, is very moving. Just before the end of the service, the surf boats go out, and ashes of those who have passed during the past year are spread over the ocean. It's sad, but it is a beautiful tribute.

      Thanks for coming by...take care. :)

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  2. The Last post is emotional for me. Been to many Dawn service on ANZAC day more so when a child as it was with the Schools I went to. Have been a few times as an adult.
    Time is moving quickly, soon be the end of winter - wishful thinking Lee.

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    1. Hi Margaret. Yes, I agree...the Last Post certainly does tug at one's heart strings. When my now late brother and I were children we always made wreaths from the chrysanthemums growing in our garden, and we'd place them on Gympie's Memoral Park gates, along with the many others, on ANZAC Day...and we attended the Dawn Services with our mother and grandmother. As I mentioned in my above response to River...until four or so years ago I used to attend the Dawn Services here where I live. Each year now, I watch all the services and marches from just before dawn onward through the day via television.

      Thanks for coming by...take good care. :)

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  3. We are definitely a slow learning species. Which is why we continue to have wars.

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    1. G'day EC...humans just can't help themselves, it would seem...more is the pity. The ignorance of humans is self-destroying and they're too ignorant to realise it! It is a sad world we are living in.

      Thanks for coming by. Take good care.

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  4. Learn from past errors? That will never happen. Now we have another war in Sudan to blight the human landscape, and China is causing daily fear in Taiwan. If that conflict ever gets serious watch out for the consequences. Sooner or later, by one means or another, we will obliterate ourselves.

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    1. And, on and on it continues, David. More and more bloodshed, and destruction...every day total mayhem erupts. It's never-ending. China is a major concern, I do agree, as are its mates Russia and North Korea.

      Take care...thanks for coming by. :)

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  5. Nothing will ever change when Man is involved...
    The sight of the father and child almost made me cry!
    I'm sorry you never knew your father...
    Big hugs!!
    Donna

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    1. Sadly, I agree with your first statement, Donna. The world is full of so much hate. Hate is a virus we can't eradicate, unfortunately. Too much evil...too much greed....

      Thanks for coming by...take good care. :)

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  6. Very emotional post, Lee! The mention of the ANZAC ceremonies, the dancing memories, the father and child loving embrace - make us all shed a tear.
    Your delicious chicken recipes make it up for Time's flying.

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    1. G'day, DUTA....Memories...the good, the bad...the happy and the sad...never go away...nor do the tears.

      Take good care...stay safe. :)

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  7. Oh Lee, you have made me think of my father. He would have been 96 on April 24th. I miss him. I remember being very small and being scooped up by him. I felt so safe! As an adult, I think he was my best friend. Now my mother, a different story. Still, she gave me life so I am thankful. x It's true about time, I'm sure it's speeded up now.

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    1. Beautiful, loving memories you have of your late father, Kay. The tender loving care shown by the father and his little daughter on Tuesday just passed really struck a chord with me.

      When we were young...in my case, anyway...we were always being told by our elders that as one grows older time speeds up. They didn't lie!

      Thanks for coming by...take care :)

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  8. Beautiful post, Lee. Time does march on, and the older we get, the faster it seems to march. We manage to keep up, though.:)

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    1. Thank you, Serena...and thanks for coming by In some cases, probably quite a few, I've not caught up with the times...but that's fine with me because there is much about the present time I don't like. :)

      Take good care....

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  9. I'm so sorry for the loss of your father, for indeed he was lost to you before you ever had a chance to have him. I know you were lovingly and well raised by your mother and grandmother, they did a fabulous job. It doesn't change the heart's cry for a father.

    I do hope we always remember the sacrifices our military and first responders make to help others. It's sad that in these "enlightened" days, we even still need a military.

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    1. Hi messymimi...our father just went "missing in action", without a backward glance, onto other pastures he no doubt felt were greener.

      Are these days "enlightened"...disappointingly, I don't believe they are....sadly.

      Take good care...thanks for coming by. :)

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  10. My life too consisted of Friday night dances and I had hula hoops and yo-yos.

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    1. Hi Annie...the dances were not to be missed, and we didn't miss them, always turning up. I think they are something missed by the young of today....but the young of today are not aware of it!

      Thanks for coming by...take care. :)

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  11. Touching description of the daughter and father at the remembrance. I missed not having a daughter though I enjoy my one and only granddaughter now. Speaking of dancing, I've been trying to convince her to dance with me so I can do a video which I could upload to YouTube. "Will my uncle Greg see it?" I said he might. "Then no," she replied. Maybe when she's a little older?

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  12. Hi there, Dave. I've just put a couple of sites in response on your blog. They are worth looking at, and I'm sure you will enjoy them....so much fun. They might just sway the way your grand-daughter thinks about dancing with you! : ) I look forward to updates!!! :)

    Ben Tate and his little daughter, Zara...the stars of the videos are so much fun to watch. Apparently, they are making loads of money from their videos, too. They dance and lip-synch to many, many songs...songs we're all so very familiar with. Enjoy! :)

    Thanks for coming by...take good care.

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  13. Thank goodness for your mom and grandmother. Somehow we never learn how to accept each other and live in peace. Sigh.

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    1. Nana and Mum didn't have it easy, They both worked hard throughout their lives to take good care of us, Sandra...but they did their very best in raising my brother and me. They had our respect...and our love. We never wanted to disappoint them.

      Thanks for coming by...take care. :)

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    2. What an emotional service that was for you. Sometimes we seem to be unaware even to ourselves, but it is not true, is it? I like your comment about substituting mercury for sand. Yes indeed time can feel that way sometimes!

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  14. Lee, this was a poignant post in so many ways, starting of with time going by so fast, make it stop, please! OK that's not possible, I know. Your description of the ANZAC observances with the father and daughter was so touching and I would have felt much the same. The absence of your father was sad to read about, but from what you wrote he did not seem to be good father material.

    Growing up, I never attended any dance get togethers in my town, but yours sounded like great fun times.

    The chicken recipes looked wonderful and chicken and roasted vegetables are on tonight's dinner menu with brown rice.

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    1. G'day, Beatrice. That moment the father and his young daughter shared certainly was so very touching...very moving. The love shown between the two of them was magical in every way....if that makes sense. :)

      Yes...our father made no attempt to see us when we were kids, nor did he contribute to our upbringing and welfare. Our mother and her mother, our Nana took care of my brother and me, in every way.

      I loved going to the dances. I loved dancing...they were loads of fun...good, innocent fun.

      Thanks for coming by...take care. Enjoy your chicken! :)

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  15. i think change is important. It could show we are learning!

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    1. Hi Tabor..unfortunately, not all change is good The behaviour of many should, and must change...for the better. There still is a lot to be desired....

      Thanks for coming by...take care. :)

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  16. A beautiful and poignant post Lee.

    Eddie and I both enjoyed the Frank Sinatra video, thank you.
    The Chicken recipes look good.

    Sending my good wishes.

    All the best Jan

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    1. G'day, Jan...For me, ANZAC Day always brings with it many emotions.

      I've always been a Sinatra fan. There will never be another "Ole Blue Eyes". I'm glad you and Eddie enjoyed the track. :)

      Thanks for coming by...take good care both of you. :)

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