Me Acting the Clown at a Tourism Event |
After
Andrea, to my surprise, had set foot on the island, he joined the other new arrivals at the poolside
table to enjoy a refreshing drink while they listened to my “greet and meet”
introduction to the resort and all it had to offer – things to be wary of etc. The "greet and meet" was something I did each time newcomers came to the island to holiday...those who
arrived by boat or seaplane. Questions
were asked and answered...it was always a relaxed introduction to the resort.
While I
was socialising with the new guests, members of my staff deposited the guests’
luggage into their respective cabins. When the guests were ready to venture forth, a
staff member, or two, would escort them to their holiday abodes. They were then left to their own devices, and
I, to mine...to get on with the rest of my job of managing the resort.
Wasting
no more time, Andrea headed off to spend his day investigating every inch –
every nook and cranny - of the area surrounding the resort, and nearby
secluded, uninhabited beaches. He was
like a kid in a candy store.
Dinner
out on the deck that first evening...Saturday night...was high-spirited, to say
the least.
As I did
every evening, I mingled among my dinner guests...going from table to table,
chatting, laughing, making sure all was well, being the hostess, which was
something I very much enjoyed being.
After
spending time with my dinner guests, some of whom were seated around tables in
the restaurant’s interior, and the balance at tables outside around the
resort’s swimming pool, I joined Jan, her husband and Andrea at one of the
outdoor tables, to dine with them under the stars.
Andrea
aka Andrew’s was awed by the expanse of the island’s beaches: also by the lack
of bodies on those beaches...live bodies, that is...there were no dead ones,
either.
Being
used to the over-crowded beaches in Italy where neck-to-neck, toes to head
beach-goers packed onto the sand, leaving not a spare inch, what Andrew had experienced
during his first day on Hinchinbrook Island was foreign to him in every
way. Everything was new and thrilling to
him. Immediately, the beauty of the
surrounds, the solitude; the peaceful sense of freedom of having a beach and
the ocean to himself alone gripped him.
Without putting up a fight, he fell under the island’s spell.
He could
barely contain his excitement. Actually,
he didn’t succeed in containing it. Free
spirits in their own right, his sparkling, dancing brown eyes unashamedly
revealed his feelings. Andrea’s
enthusiasm was contagious. It was
intoxicating. When someone displays honest, unbridled emotions like he did
during his first evening on the island, it’s difficult not to succumb to their
fervour. Their exuberance makes you take
a look around through their eyes, causing you to come to the realisation, to an
extent... no matter how small...unconsciously, not purposely, you’ve been
taking some things for granted.
Not
wearied by his energetic, adventure-filled day, Andrea stayed on long after Jan and her husband
retired to their cabin. We sat and
talked well into the night...into the early hours of the following morning...under
the stars, serenaded by the sound of the ocean gently lapping the shore below
on Orchid Beach.
The attraction
between us couldn’t be denied. I had no
desire to deny it, nor did he.
Though a
million years younger than me, any concern about an age gap was soon cast to
the wayside to be considered at another time! Who cared? Definitely not me, nor did it worry Andrea. I was a “free agent”, as was he. We were doing no harm to anyone else. In fact, it was no one else’s business.
I could
very well have been the first ever “cougar”!
Eat your heart out, Demi Moore...we might share the same birth date (not
the same year)...but I beat you on the cougar score!
As
planned, Jan and her husband left the island on the Sunday afternoon around 4
pm. They disembarked from the “Reef
Venture” at the Cardwell jetty. From
there they drove back to Cairns, 182ks north.
Andrea
chose to remain behind on the island, having asked me if he could extend his
visit. I wasn’t displeased by his request...by
his decision. Of course, I said, "Yes!" Our relationship
intensified.
Another thing in his favour was...he loved cats. Immediately, he'd befriended and fell in love with my ginger cat, "Ruska".
During
the following week I needed to attend a pre-planned tourism conference at the
beachside Kewarra Beach Resort, 200kms north of Cardwell. Kewarra Beach is a northern beach suburb of
Cairns. It is 20ks north of Cairns.
My car, a
Cortina Ghia, was stored in the Cardwell booking office’s garage when not
required by me. The booking office, as
I’ve previously mentioned, was run by husband and wife team....Bob and Bonnie. Bob was the skipper of the “Reef Venture”. No vehicles were required on the island. There were/are no roads. It was and still is
a wild, natural wilderness. The resort
did have one well-worn Toyota ute (utility) that rumbled up the track to the
cabins. It was used to carry guests'
luggage, provisions, gas bottles etc., along the jetty, up to the main area, cabins, and to
the generator-work shed.
I asked Andrea
to accompany me to Kewarra Beach.
We
couldn’t lose sight of the fact he was visiting Australia as a representative
of his father’s tour operator business. Beppe,
himself, was a well-travelled man, having visited many corners of the world. Before Andrea became an employee of his
father, the condition was he would learn to speak English. Beppe sent his son to London, to live there for a while, primarily to
learn to speak, and understand the English language.
Following
his London educational sojourn, Andrea was placed on his father’s payroll.
Shortly
thereafter, he was dispatched to distant shores to learn as much as he could
about Australia, and Tropical North Queensland , in particular, which was an
area considered to be a huge drawcard for Italian tourists.
Therefore,
not everything was fun and games. And,
of course, I still had a resort to manage; staff to guide, and guests to
please.
When on and off the island, Andrea was a sponge, eager to
learn as much as he could about tourism, and the area of Australia that had him
under its spell.
While I
attended the conference during the daylight hours, Andrea roamed freely as he explored
Kewarra Beach and its surrounding areas. At night he was my partner at the
various dinners shared with the conference participants. An interested party,
he listened intently to the conversations – asking pertinent questions where
and when necessary. Others immediately
took to him. His personality was bright, cheerful, and intelligent. It was fun to be in his company.
After the
two-day conference at Kewarra Beach ended, Andrea and I continued further north
to Palm Cove. Not once did he ask...”Are
we there yet?” Enthralled by everything
he saw, I had a captive audience at my side.
We booked into a small beachfront resort/motel in Palm Cove. There we spent a couple
of idyllic days, relishing blue skies, sand, the ocean, moonlit nights. During
one of the days, we broke our tranquility, and travelled a little further north again...to Port Douglas...43kms
north.
However,
all good things must come to an end...and for our “good thing”...that time had
arrived.
It was an
emotional farewell at Cairns Airport when Andrea boarded a Qantas jet to fly
him south to link to his flight to Italy. Tears were shed...not only by me. Promises
were made to return to Australia as soon as it was possible for him to do
so. After a lonely, sad, solo trip back
to Cardwell, I returned to my life on the island.
Promises
are often made that one feels will never be fulfilled. In this instance, I forced
myself to face the reality of the situation. Andrea and I had shared a vignette in
time...in life...an unexpected, pleasant, passionate interlude. I refused to let my heart expect more.
Watching
him pass through the exit door onto the tarmac of the Cairns airport, I wiped
away my tears, telling myself, “That’s that! I’ve had my ‘Italian Love Affair’…and
it had been wonderful. It will be embedded in my mind and heart forever.” Another chapter in my life had come to an end.
For a
fortnight, the world had stopped for Andrew and me. We’d become so engrossed in
each other most of the outside world...outside our private section of it, anyway...had
fallen into oblivion. Nothing else
existed. No one else existed except the two of us.
As I watched, through tear-filled (overflowing) eyes, the jet soar aloft,
and then turn southward, I felt a full stop, not a comma, had arrived at the end
of a sentence...of a paragraph in my life’s story.
It was time to store in my mind’s vault, the
stolen moments, the fun we’d shared...it was time to face the world once more. Life goes on...as does one’s responsibility to
one’s job!
The
images of Andrew’s flashing eyes, his mischievous smile, his lithe, brown body
and his lively personality continued to tease and taunt me. Together we had
fitted like fingers into finely-crafted gloves. I missed his conversation, his
joyful innocence when confronted by the wonderment of his new surroundings.
Through
his eyes, I learned to look around me and see anew. Our time spent together had been exciting...exhilarating...passionate,
in all forms of the word. I missed him.
I missed him terribly, but I buried myself in work; and there was much to do, as
always.
It was fruitless pining for him,
I told myself. We would never meet again. For me to think otherwise would be living in a
fantasy world.
I must
point out, too...this all occurred in 1986, a long time before personal computers
and the easy availability of the internet existed in my life...personal and business. On the island I still used an old two-way radio system to be in contact with the boat operators and seaplane operators.
Andrea
telephoned me immediately upon his return home to Italy. To my surprise, and thorough joy...he
continued to do so every couple of days. Via telephone, Andrea even introduced me to his father, Beppe.
Without missing a beat, Beppe and I talked like we were old friends.
He was a most pleasant man.
Four
weeks had transpired since Andrea’s departure from Australia when, one busy morning
I reached for the ringing telephone in my island office. Andrea’s lyrical, cheerful
voice greeted me. My heart leapt. A broad
smile creased my face as was the uncontrollable habit each time I heard his voice.
As I listened
to his words coming through the phone, I was speechless. He was returning to
Australia…to me! Was I still sleeping? Was this a dream?
To be
continued...
***Andrea and I chatted at length two
nights ago. Out of the blue, he contacted me to let me know Beppe (Guiseppe), his father had
passed away a couple of weeks ago.
Oddly, I’d been thinking a lot about Beppe, for whatever reason, over
the past few days....
I'm so glad you and Andrea had such a great time and still connect. It's always a joy to see the land we love through another's appreciative eyes. Kewarra Beach looks like the sort of place I could retire to and live quietly, like a hermit, with my books and dvds, my cat :)
ReplyDeleteHi River...it was a fun time...unexpected that is for sure.
DeleteIt's a long time since I've been to Kewarra Beach...I hope it hasn't changed very much through the progress of time.
Thanks for coming by. :)
Your last three pictures were terrific. I want to be there. A cabin at the resort - with all that beautiful flora! And the water plane - you have had a wonderful life.
ReplyDeleteHi Sandie...A little cabin like that, with no nearby neighbours would suit me perfectly, too. :)
DeleteThanks for coming by. :)
It sounds like a perfect interlude for you both. A rich memory to savour, and how wonderful that you stay in touch. His most recent call was a sad one - but certainly a testimonial to the relationship you shared.
ReplyDeleteHey there, EC...It was a special time...many memories were made...memories made and not forgotten.
DeleteThanks for coming by. :)
What a lovely tale and how sad for you that he had to leave. He sounds like a sincere Italian charmer. If he had not travelled aside from England, I can imagine his excitement about Australia and especially the island. Can't wait for more!
ReplyDeleteHi Andrew...Australia was far from Andrea's home...and the island, and the rest of Tropical Far North Queensland he visited certainly were so much different to what he was used to.
DeleteI'm glad you're enjoying my revelations about a special time in my life. :)
Thanks for coming by. :)
Touristic resorts are quite the place for romantic adventures. I had a friend, hotel manager at the Dead Sea resort and she had some great stories to tell about that.
ReplyDeleteThe picture with you and the cat in your arms is awsome! So are the photos from Kewara beach.
G'day, DUTA...they certainly are quite the places for romance and adventure...and more particularly, island resorts! :)
DeleteThanks, DUTA...and thanks for coming by. :)
what a beautiful memory, how wonderful for you and Andrea
ReplyDeleteHey, Linda...Yes...many happy memories from that time in my life.
DeleteThanks for coming by. :)
Isn't romance fun!
ReplyDeleteHi messymimi...it is all things, I think...many emotions are involved.
DeleteThanks for coming by. :)
Definitely an Affair to Remember..
ReplyDeleteLove this true story Lee :)
Look forward to the next part...
G'day, Margaret...It was an affair to remember...by both of us. It was an unexpected affair, but not one that was regretted.
ReplyDeleteThanks for coming by...there is more to come. :)
What a story! I am waiting for the next installment!
ReplyDeleteListen Lee, the phone call...Oddly enough, I just did a post with JEFF LYNNE singing "Telephone Line". Listen to the words of the song, I bet it will bring tears to your eyes!
Hi Kay...good to see you. It's been a while since you've popped in. :)
DeleteGreat song by ELO...many songs bring tears to my eyes...I'm the biggest sook aka softie out! lol
Thanks for coming by...take care. :)
I thoroughly enjoyed reading about that brief episode in your life. There are nothing like love affairs for creating memories. I try only to think about the good ones. That's not difficult because I've forgotten the bad ones. One of the sadnesses of age is that few of us have love affairs any more. However we may have friendships which have always tended to outlast love affairs. Of course some are fortunate to have love affairs that turn into friendships. Sometimes that even happens in marriages. You've set me off. I'm rambling again.
ReplyDeleteHi Graham...there is still more to come on particular affair after these first couple of chapters.
DeleteThe bad affairs aren't worth wasting memories on. Fortunately,I didn't really have any bad ones...just a couple of dalliances with a couple of "unsuitables", that I knew in my heart were "unsuitables" pretty much from the start...so they didn't last long! lol
There were a few brief dalliances that I knew from the kick-off were going to be brief...so no broken hearts there! ;)
As with Andrea...after our "moments in the sun/seasons in the sun" a friendship from afar grew and lasted through the years.
My late ex-husband, Randall and I remained very good friends through to his passing in August, 2019. He mattered a lot to me...and I know I did to him. We spoke regularly...a few times a week.
My first husband and I never became enemies. Our marriage was brief....just over 2-1/2 years. Until this past year we've always rung each other on our respective birthdays, and at Christmas. However, he had a stroke during 2019 and now is in a care facility. His wife and I have chatted through the years, though...she and I have no reason to be unfriendly towards each other...we never have been.
Now, the reverse has occurred....you set me off rambling! lol
Thanks for coming by, Graham...take good care. :)
Fascinating reading, Lee. Can't wait for the next installment.
ReplyDeleteYour island truly looked like paradise.
Thanks, Sandra. Hinchinbrook Island is truly magnificent...a large island of natural beauty...a wilderness.
DeleteThanks for coming by. :)
Hi Lee, You have captured not just the details a special time but also the feelings of the time. And you describe it all so well, the beauty of your surroundings and your romance.
ReplyDeleteHey there, Pauline...it was a special time...and I'm glad I've been able to express the emotions of the time...for them to be understood...and appreciated. :)
DeleteThanks for coming by. Take good care. :)
I love the pic of you and Ruska:)
ReplyDeleteHe was a beautiful cat...I loved him dearly. Not long after that a giant python took him. I was devastated...heartbroken. I still well-up when I think about it.
DeleteThanks for coming by again, Sandra...take care. :)
It's wonderful to connect with another human being in the way that you connected with Andrea. It's in times like that that we feel truly alive and not alone any more.
ReplyDeleteYes, it is, Yorkie. In life one meets interesting people...and some really are worth knowing...and time spent with them is worth remembering.
DeleteThanks for coming by...sorry, I'd not notice your comment earlier. :)
No it is my fault for reading the post so long after you wrote it.
DeleteGood to read, and a good selection of photographs too …
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing these many happy memories from that time in your life...
All the best Jan